(Sexuality before contact?)

I think that people can tell who they're attracted to, even if they don't act on that attraction. Too, being straight or gay or bi or pan doesn't only have to do with sex. It also has to do with romance, bonding, lifestyle, and all sorts of other non-sexual connections.


Another little curve ball... many people's sexuality changes. For example, some women start off "straight" and end up identifying as Lesbians later on in life.

I think that a person's sexuality is mutable. People change as they grow. Their thoughts change, their preferences change, their bodies change, and they rack up various experiences.